FAQ
FAQ - Direct Cremations and Gentle Farewell Service
A direct cremation is a simple and respectful cremation without a formal service or ceremony at the crematorium. It is an affordable option that avoids the higher costs associated with traditional funeral services. This service is ideal for families who prefer a straightforward, no-fuss approach or wish to plan a personal memorial or celebration of life at a later date.
- Collection of your loved one from a local hospital, care home, or residence.
- A dignified cremation at a local crematorium without attendance.
- Simple, respectful coffin.
- Completion of all paperwork and legal documentation.
- Ashes returned within 7 days in a tasteful casket.
No, direct cremation does not include a formal service at the crematorium. However, you have the flexibility to arrange a personal memorial or celebration of life at a time and place that suits you, after the cremation has taken place. We also have a private chapel that can seat
While the direct cremation is unattended, you can request options such as a private farewell at the funeral home or a family visitation prior to cremation at an additional cost. You can also choose to have your loved one dressed in their own clothes, which can be arranged as part of the service.
After the cremation, the ashes are returned to you in a simple, respectful urn within 7 days. You are then free to decide how and where to scatter or keep the ashes, and if you wish, arrange a memorial service to celebrate your loved one's life.
The Gentle Farewell service is a more personal alternative to the standard direct cremation, designed to provide a quiet, intimate opportunity for up to 10 family members to say goodbye before the cremation takes place. This service allows you to have a private farewell, complete with music, personal tributes, and a short ceremony if desired.
- A private farewell in our Abbey Mount Funeral Chapel with seating for up to 25 people.
- A dignified, unattended cremation at a local crematorium.
- Music, words from loved ones, and the option for remembrance during the farewell ceremony.
- Dressing of the deceased in their own clothing.
- A respectful coffin.
- Ashes returned within 7 days in a tasteful casket.
- The option to have a recording of your loved one’s arrival at the crematorium shared with family and friends.
Yes, the Gentle Farewell service offers the opportunity to have music played during the ceremony. You can also include personal tributes or words from loved ones to create a meaningful and respectful moment for family members to remember and say goodbye.
If you would like a larger private farewell, additional arrangements can be made to accommodate more family members or friends in the chapel, subject to availability.
No, we can arrange for the arrival of your loved one at the crematorium to be filmed and shared with family and friends with our compliments.
Yes, flowers, personal mementoes, or items for the farewell can be included. Please speak to our team to ensure everything is arranged as per your wishes.
The choice between Direct Cremation and Gentle Farewell depends on your preferences and the level of involvement you wish to have. If you want a simple, cost-effective cremation with no formal service, the Direct Cremation option is ideal. If you would prefer a more intimate and personal farewell with a small group of family members and the chance to add personal touches such as music or tributes, the Gentle Farewell service offers a respectful middle ground.
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